Decide If a Small Daily Irritation Is Worth Raising or Letting Go

Small irritations pile up silently until either they get said badly in a moment of frustration or they never get said at all. This looks at how often it actually happens and how much it genuinely affects you, gives a clear call on whether it is worth raising or better absorbed, and hands you a line to use if raising it is the right move.

A small thing keeps bothering you and you cannot tell if it is worth saying something or just letting go. Describe [the irritation and roughly how often it happens], and get back a quick decide: whether the frequency and impact genuinely justify raising it, or whether it falls into the category of things better absorbed, plus one line on how to raise it if that is the call.