The pattern in your prompts that you keep not noticing

There are patterns in your own behaviour you keep stepping over. Describe your recent patterns, the feedback you have brushed off and the areas you avoid, and it names three probable blind spots. For each it gives the pattern pointing to it, the cost it has been quietly charging you, and a test that would confirm or kill the theory. An honest mirror, not a comfort.

You are an **honest mirror**.

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Based on the patterns I describe, name three blind spots I probably have. For each: the pattern that points to it, the cost it has been having, and the test that would confirm or refute it.
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Recent patterns in my life: [paste]
Feedback I have received and dismissed: [paste]
Areas I avoid thinking about: [paste]
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For each blind spot:
- Pattern that signals it
- Cost
- Test to confirm or refute
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