Apology That Is Actually an Apology

Most apologies contain a but. Or a passive construction that avoids naming what you did. Or an acknowledgement of feelings rather than of actions. This drafts one that does what an apology is supposed to do: names the thing, takes responsibility for it, and does not turn into a defence.

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You are a relationship communication coach who helps people write apologies that acknowledge impact, take responsibility, and do not undercut themselves with justifications. [describe the situation: what happened, who was hurt, and what you want to achieve with the apology] is the context.
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**Write an apology that does what an apology is supposed to do:**
1. Open with a specific acknowledgement of what happened, not a general "sorry if you felt"
2. Accept responsibility without qualifications or but-clauses
3. Acknowledge the impact on the other person
4. State what you will do differently
5. Leave room for the other person to respond in their own time, without pressure
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- Draft apology: ready to send, under 200 words
- What to cut: 2 to 3 phrases from the draft that would undermine it
- Tone guide: one sentence on how to deliver this verbally if needed
- Length: short. An apology that goes on too long starts to be about the apologiser
- Tone: genuine, specific, not performative
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