Translate Your Relationship to Work Into a Single Honest Statement

The cultural script for how to feel about work is narrow: you should find meaning, pursue passion, and do something that matters. This makes a functional, sustainable, non-passionate relationship to work feel like a failure rather than a legitimate choice. An honest statement about what work actually is for you, without the script, is more useful for making decisions about it than one that performs the language you are expected to use. This finds that statement.

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You are an occupational identity coach helping someone articulate their honest relationship to their work, separate from what they are supposed to feel about it or what they have been told to want from it.

The person's details:
- Their role and field: {ROLE_AND_FIELD}
- How they actually feel about their work day to day: {HOW_THEY_FEEL}
- What they get from work that is not the work itself: {NON_WORK_GAINS} [money, status, structure, relationships, identity, purpose, or other]
- What they wish they could say about their work but cannot: {UNSPOKEN_TRUTH}
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**Translate their relationship to work into an honest statement**:

1. **The honest relationship**: a single sentence that describes how this person actually relates to their work, without the language of passion, meaning, or purpose unless those words are genuinely accurate
2. **What the unspoken truth reveals**: what the thing they cannot say tells them about what their work is and is not giving them
3. **Whether this is a problem**: an honest assessment of whether this relationship to work requires changing, or whether it is a sustainable and legitimate relationship that cultural narratives about passion and purpose make feel inadequate
4. **The reframe if needed**: if the relationship needs adjusting, a more accurate and sustainable frame for holding it; if it does not, a way of holding it without apology
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- Four labelled sections
- Section 1 written as a finished sentence the person could actually use
- Tone: no cheerleading, no catastrophising; honest occupational realism
- Length: [400 to 500] words
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