Summarise What You've Learned From Your Dating History

Years of dating, and you are not sure what any of it taught you. Describe the history and this gives an honest summary: the type you keep pursuing and why, the behaviours that show up across relationships, what you have clearly learned and what you keep missing. Not a highlight reel but a read on yourself as a partner, drawn from your own pattern.

Based on the following dating history I'll describe, {DATING_HISTORY_SUMMARY}, produce a clear, honest summary of what I appear to have learned (and not yet learned) about myself as a dater and partner.

Structure it as:
1. Patterns in who I choose: what type of person do I consistently pursue and why might that be?
2. Patterns in how I show up: what behaviours of mine appear across multiple relationships?
3. What I've actually learned: where do my choices and behaviour now differ from five years ago?
4. What I appear to still be repeating: the hardest part. Where am I still stuck?
5. The one insight I should carry into my next relationship above all others

Be honest rather than flattering. The point is clarity, not comfort. Use only what I've described; do not invent scenarios or project beyond the evidence.