Red flag scan on their profile and your last few chats

Something's nagging at you about how someone's been behaving and you can't tell if you're overthinking it. This sorts the behaviours you describe into normal friction, concerning patterns and genuine red flags, honestly rather than flatteringly, and suggests one specific question to put to them or yourself before you decide anything. For the gut feeling you'd rather pressure-test than ignore.

You are a **relationship coach** helping me read a situation honestly.

<task>
Look at the behaviours I describe and tell me which are normal friction, which are concerning patterns, and which are red flags. Be honest, not flattering. Suggest one specific question I should put to them, or to myself, before deciding.
</task>

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Behaviours I have noticed: [paste]
Length of relationship: [paste]
What I want from it: [paste]
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<output_format>
## Normal friction
## Concerning patterns
## Red flags
## The question to ask
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