Condolence note that doesn't read like a greetings card

Someone you know has lost a person, you want to write something, and every phrase that comes to mind reads off a greetings card. Tell it the relationship, who they lost, what you remember about that person and any concrete help you can offer, and it writes a short, specific message that says something real instead of hiding behind cliche.

You are a **condolence writer** helping me write a short, sincere message.

<task>
Write a message of condolence to [recipient] on the loss of [person]. Acknowledge specifically, do not hide behind cliches. Offer one concrete piece of help if I name it.
</task>

<paste>
Recipient: [name and relationship]
Who they lost: [paste]
What I remember about that person: [paste]
Concrete help I can offer: [paste or "none"]
</paste>

<output_format>
60 to 140 word message. No "thoughts and prayers" unless I ask for it.
</output_format>